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Say the name of your
spouse where it says "[Name]", you must say this often, 1-3 times a day.
(Morning, noon and night = 3 times) It is also better to say the “Chaplet
of divine mercy” (below) with this specific intention as well in addition to
this prayer.
These prayers have a great success! But give it time...
God works well when you are patient.
A 40-120 days if it is God will, he/she will come around.
Scroll down below the prayers for some TIPS for
saving your marriage
But do not go forth blind of your own issues that need to change. Please
note many marry the WRONG SPOUSE, if these prayers begin to don't work over 90
days time, you may suspect your spouses departure is better for YOU, and is in
fact God's will... Now it's time to go to WORK in prayers. It's not going to be
easy, but be consistent and push forward form the next 90-120 days especially!
1)
Prayer For Marriage
This one removes the spirits affecting and hinder you
spouse and your marriage.
Dear Lord God, one true God, Lord of Mercy, Creator of all
things,
Thank you for all I have in my Children here with me, my
house, my business, all miracles in themselves. I thank for them all and all of
the things in my life.
But Now I again come to you to plea by the blood of your
son Jesus and in his holy name for the restoration of my Marriage to my Wife
[Name], whom I love very much, and whom I married in your sons church. I pray
for the reunion of me and [Name], and that it is according to your holy will.
I Beg for mercy and forgiveness on behalf of my wife [Name]
and myself for all of the things we may have done to offense thee oh Lord. All
that we may have taken for grantite, all especially that lead to the destruction
of our marriage and my wife’s feelings for me.
I plead by my Authority as [Name]’s Husband married in your
son church in the sacrament of matrimony and by the blood of your son Jesus and
in his holy name, that any and all evil spirits that affected [Name] to stray
from me and our marriage will be rebuked in Jesus name and bound by the precious
blood of Jesus.
From [Name] I pray that…
-All spirits of infidelity… I cast you away in Jesus holy
name and bound you by his precious blood at the foot of the cross at the feet of
Jesus.
-All spirits of Divorce and separation… In the name of
Jesus Christ, I cast you evil and unclean spirits away from [Name] and I bound
you by his precious blood at the foot of the cross at the feet of Jesus.
All spirits of Anxiety…and stress [In the name of Jesus...etc.]
All spirits of Fear…[In the name of Jesus...etc.]
All spirits of unforgiveness and grudges…[In the name of Jesus...etc.]
All spirits of Menopause and Mid-life…[In the name of
Jesus...etc.]
All spirits of Confusion….[In the name of Jesus...etc.]
All spirits of Depression…[In the name of Jesus...etc.]
All spirits of Curses, generational and otherwise ...[In
the name of Jesus...etc.]
All spirits of the occult, new age, and Witchcraft...[In the name of
Jesus...etc.]
All spirits of Jezebel...[In the name of Jesus...etc.]
All spirits of pride and Jealousy…[In the name of
Jesus...etc.]
Any and all spirits of that may affect [Name] and the
sanctity of our marriage,
I pray my God in Jesus name and plead by his precious blood
that in Jesus name I cast all of these spirits away and bind them away from
[Name] by his precious blood, so that all of the spirits and their affects will
be detached from his/her to never return.
I also plea in Jesus name and by his precious blood to
break, detach and dissolve any and all harmful friendships [Name] may have. So
they are removed from his/her life and held far from one another in Jesus name I
pray. Any of these friends whom In [Name] especially promote thoughts of
infidelity, divorce and separation and other sins. These I plead the blood of
Jesus these acquaintances are broken, severed and destroyed where they will
never have contact with one another.
I do pray oh Lord that [Name] may find a safe friend, whom
will act as his/her living guardian angel to guide his/her back to you, our
marriage and away from sin.
Oh lord Jesus cover his/her with your precious blood to
project his/her, cleans his/her heart, his/her mind his/her soul, whole being.
And with the water from your merciful heart may he/she be cleanse with your
mercy and truly delivered from these evil spirits that affect his/her and our
marriage.
Again, by my authority as his/her [husband through the Hold
Roman Catholic church, with the precious blood of Jesus I clean [Name]s heart
and mind of any and all ill Thought he/she may have linger of me and our
marriage.
Every thought of unforgiveness… she/he may hold against
me, I cleans in the precious blood of Jesus and erase in his holy name.
Any and all thoughts of resentment…
Any and all thoughts of ingratitude…
Any and all thoughts of Hate or discontent…
Any and all thoughts of Lies, and untruth…
Any and all NEGATIVE thoughts whatsoever, he/she may hold
against me, I cleans in the precious blood of Jesus and erase in his holy name.
So that all that his/her heart and mind no longer holds
this negativity he/she other wise holds onto that promotes destruction and hate
not love and peace in our marriage.
Oh Lord my God, almighty Father in heaven.
I now plead the blood of your son Jesus over [Name], and
ask you to cover his/her with his most precious blood, so that he/she is
protected from all evil and unclean spirits who are harmful to our marriage and
[himself/herself].
Every thought [Name] may have during his/her waking hours…
I cleans in the precious blood of Jesus, in his holy name and with his merciful
water.
Anytime he/she sleeps and dreams, I cleans in the precious
blood of Jesus, in his holy name and with his merciful water.
Any dream he/she may have…
Every word that he/she shall hear - or receives…
Every word that he/she speaks, action he/she takes, choice
that he/she makes ……
Everything that may affect his/her day or night away from
God, our marriage, and towards sin…
Oh Jesus! With the intercession of your blessed Mother and
his/her guardian angel, and the Angels and Siant to whom I pray for intercession
[mention names here].
Please guide and Steer [Name]’s every thought word and action on towards our
loving father in heaven, back to us here at his/her home, and away from sin,
especially the grave sins of adultery, divorce and separation!
I know consecrate my marriage, my self my wife [Name]
through the immaculate heart of you mother Mary, to your most sacred heart!
Protect his/her oh Jesus and the sanctity of our marriage.
Oh my Jesus cover his/her with your most precious blood to
protect his/her day and night from any thoughts words and actions that are
detrimental to our marriage and his/her soul.
Oh Bless mother Mary, our Mother in heaven!
Please shield his/her day and night with the shield of your
immaculate conception, and the mantle of your purity, to protect his/her against
infidelity, immoral choices especially thoughts words and actions against the
sanctity of me and our marriage!
By you pure and immaculate conception Oh Mary, make [Name]’s
body pure and his/her soul Holy. [3 times]
Oh Mary our mother, please preserve his/her form Mortal sin
this day. [3 times]
I pray this in the name of your son Jesus and by his
precious blood!
Oh lord my God, although I accept [Name] AS-IS, I now plead
the blood of Jesus that he/she will have a spiritual conversion of his/her
faith, where he/she will truly follow your holy will, and
not him/herself and misguiding evil spirits.
That by you will and grace his/her heart, mind and soul
will come closer to your divine providence and back to us here with his/her
family in Christ Jesus.
I plead the Blood of your son Jesus oh Lord, my God that
these demons that cover [Name]’s eyes, and ears, masking the truth, your light,
and righteousness, with be Rebuked in Jesus name and bound by his precious blood
at the foot of his cross.
That the holy spirit that dwells within his/her will
convict his/her of his/her sins, his/her eyes will be fully opened to his/her
sins and he/she will feel the pain he/she cause you to feel lord and those whom
his/her sins affect.
I I now pray that I am made more worthy of his/her return
with my own conversion, for I am unworthy of your mercy oh Lord! Please Help to
better prepare me for the stronger more spiritual reunion of us both while we
are apart!
Please oh Lord Jesus, bring me closer to you so that I will
be more worthy of [Name]’s love and respect help me with my fear, anxiety,
stress of everyday life, lazy/lack of motivation issues. I pray in Jesus name.
But it is all your will oh lord, not mine in this. I place
it all into your loving hands!
I pray these things in Jesus holy name. Amen
2) The Chaplet of The
Divine Mercy
This prayer is good for the Conversion of Sinners also
How to Recite the Chaplet
The Chaplet of Mercy is recited using ordinary rosary beads of
five decades. The Chaplet is preceded by two opening prayers from the Diary of
Saint Faustina and followed by a closing prayer.
[Specifically mention your spouse here]
1. Make the Sign of the Cross
In the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy
Spirit. Amen.
2. Optional Opening Prayers
You expired, Jesus, but the source of life gushed forth for
souls, and the ocean of mercy opened up for the whole world. O Fount of Life,
unfathomable Divine Mercy, envelop the whole world and empty Yourself out upon
us.
(Repeat three times)
O Blood and Water, which gushed forth from the Heart of Jesus as a fountain of
Mercy for us, I trust in You!
3. Our Father
Our Father, Who art in heaven, hallowed be Thy name; Thy
kingdom come; Thy will be done on earth as it is in heaven. Give us this day our
daily bread; and forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass
against us; and lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil, Amen.
4. Hail Mary
Hail Mary, full of grace. The Lord is with thee. Blessed art
thou amongst women, and blessed is the fruit of thy womb, Jesus. Holy Mary,
Mother of God, pray for us sinners, now and at the hour of our death, Amen.
5. The Apostle's Creed
I believe in God, the Father almighty, Creator of heaven and
earth, and in Jesus Christ, His only Son, our Lord, who was conceived by the
Holy Spirit, born of the Virgin Mary, suffered under Pontius Pilate, was
crucified, died and was buried; He descended into hell; on the third day He rose
again from the dead; He ascended into heaven, and is seated at the right hand of
God the Father almighty; from there He will come to judge the living and the
dead. I believe in the Holy Spirit, the holy catholic Church, the communion of
saints, the forgiveness of sins, the resurrection of the body, and life
everlasting. Amen.
6. The Eternal Father
Eternal Father, I offer you the Body and Blood, Soul and
Divinity of Your Dearly Beloved Son, Our Lord, Jesus Christ, in atonement for
our sins and those of the whole world.
7. On the Ten Small Beads of Each Decade
For the sake of His sorrowful Passion, have mercy on us and on
the whole world.
8. Repeat for the remaining decades
Saying the "Eternal Father" (6) on the "Our Father" bead and
then 10 "For the sake of His sorrowful Passion" (7) on the following "Hail Mary"
beads.
9. Conclude with Holy God
(Repeat three times)
Holy God, Holy Mighty One, Holy Immortal One, have mercy on us
and on the whole world.
10. Optional Closing Prayer
Eternal God, in whom mercy is endless and the treasury of
compassion — inexhaustible, look kindly upon us and increase Your mercy in us,
that in difficult moments we might not despair nor become despondent, but with
great confidence submit ourselves to Your holy will, which is Love and Mercy
itself.
3) THE ROSARY
NOVENA
A Rosary novena is 54 CONSECUTIVE days, 27
praying for your petition, then onto 27 days thanking for you prayers being
heard and answered.
You begin with the Joyful mysteries and cycle each day until that last day, day
54 with the glorious. In other words, you do NOT do the glorious mysteries on
Saturday and Sunday. The span of "Fifty-Four" days is
basically nine sets of are three mysteries, asking, another nine sets of three
thanking. So the set number of days is significant.
TIPS
FOR SAVING YOUR MARRIAGE Upon a physical separation
(Not a complete list)
A "cheating spouse" more
complicates things, these tips are more for the spouse who is not involved
with another. This new love interest will further drag out even Gods will.
However, the first prayer does consider a harmful friendship or romance is
there, and it seeks to severe this unholy companionship. IF IT IS GODS WILL
HE/SHE will be back, if you persist in their prayers!!
1. After initial
separation, expect a 2-3 week "No contact" to allow your spouse to gather their
thoughts. You DO pray this who time, don't let time slip away without God extra
grace, when to is so badly needed! Your spouse may contact YOU after this 2-3
week span to see how you are.
2. During the separation
DO NOT contact his/her family and friends.
3. Do not seek advice
from YOUR family and friends they can be BIASED about your spouse and will tell
you what you want to hear.
4. Do not act on emotions
"period", after the initial breakup, they likely already got a sample of your
feelings. That is enough for now.
emotions will push you to do this that further drive them away. Reply on prayer
and time, it's your only friend.
5. At this stage it is
assumed Marriage Counseling either failed, or was never considered seriously. Do
not expect to convince your spouse to go to counseling at this stage. Time for
that is gone (for now). Only if he/she begins to talk about getting back
together, will it be the time it will be brought up. And it is better they bring
it up, not you! And you WILL SAY "Yes"! (Make sure it is a Christian and
pray to get a good counselor)
6. Do NOT file for
divorce, or say ANYTHING about doing so. Some do this as to test their spouses
feelings and position in their marriage with a "Should we file for divorce"?
Let YOUR SPOUSE be the first to bring this up, even if they do don't bring it
up. And if they do file and you are served, don't think that it is over, because
it isn't yet. Especially if that time fame of 40-120 days have not passed.
7. Take this time for
self improvement. Don't sink and project a need for pity, make yourself the
person that you should and could be! Time for Weight loss, take art or music
lessons, karate. Not only will this take you out of isolation and obsession over
your spouse. You are working towards making yourself a better person, therefore
more desirable to your spouse.
8. Are there changes you
know your spouse want you to change? Do them now... Get them in practice
9. This is probably
obvious, but do NOT take on friends of the opposite sex, you are treading on
dangerous waters. No singles bars, not lunches alone with colleagues. It is
important that you avoid the occasions of sin so you don't get tempted in your
venerable state to make matter worse.
10. If any dialog is
going on, again NO emotion. NO defense/ offense reactions, no matter what they
say. Sometimes kids are involved and you have to exchange kids for parental
visits. Do so with out vice and emotion.
11. Clean up yourself and
your house to look "well", have your house cleaned up if he/she is coming over.
Don't show signs you are broken.
12. ALLOW a "friendship"
if she asks for it, but DO NOT take advantage of this, be the friend you once
were before the drama of separation. She may fall in love with you all over
again. She may begin to call you and talk about her day, be a good friend and
listen. Don't say "What are we doing" don't try to challenge this stage, don't
blow it!
13. Do not seek COMFORT
in Sin especially, Drugs and Alcohol, or dating and one night stands. You need
to keep the commandments so God can work in your life. You NEED HIM more than
ever! Secondly, you don't want to decay, become a druggie/drunkard, or yourself
commit adultery. Strive to keep your spirit pure so you are worthy for her/his
return!!
After these initial days
of prayers, you may start to notice you're spouse coming around in a variety of
ways. Here are some signs they are started to come back, slowly. Don't
jump/rush, relax, pray be patient and let it happen!
Any one of these likely is not enough a combination is what we look for.
(Not a complete list)
1. He/She begins to begins
ask you "how you are doing?".
2. He/She starts to talk
about old times.
3. He/She says "missed us"
"misses you", even if it is "The old you" she/he is talking about.
4. He/She has not taken onto
dating, relationships with a member of the opposite sex.
5. He/She gives "only if"
statements, for example: "If we have done [this or that] things might have been
different. She is weighing the failure of the relationship on these stated
issues, if they are fixable, this is a good sign of hope.
6. They may stay they "Still
love you" then follow that with a counter statement: "But... I can't come back"
or "But... we could never be". At some point this issue they have may diminish
and be over come with the positives, this is why you are patient and a good
friend during this time.
7. They show up at places
you are at, especially places she/he may know you frequently go to. (favorite
restaurant, etc. The note here, is they will avoid you for a variety of reasons
if they want to move on.
8. How are they when they are with you? Do they touch you when you say something
funny? Did they hug you when they saw you?
Two main things can be
something to look for. Acting like a good friend or a lover? IS she flirting
with you like the times before you asked her out and you were seeing sign "she
really likes you"? Sometimes it returns to this stage, like a rewind, go along
with it. It can be a chance to restart, renew from the point of origin.
Don't push, let it
happen! Be patient! Don't say anything like "What are you doing"? "I can't
pretend noting has happened" etc. Get off your self-righteous high horse, and
let her come back in her way. Don't blow it!
IF YOUR SPOUSE DO NOT
RETURN, CONSIDER THIS:
When it begins to pass a year,
especially if they went ahead with divorce and remarried. Consider these facts:
1. You literary did all
you could, you can never look back and say "what if I..?" ...since you did all
you could do to save and restore your marriage.
2. Take comfort in that
fact that you prayed to where you can fully say it was indeed "Gods will".
3. Because of God's grace
through your prayers and faith. At some point you will not only see where you
needed improvements, but also you will clearly see how your former spouse was
NOT the right one for you.
4. As "God's will"
prevails, it wasn't his design for your spouse to return. This would be a case
where something BETTER is in store, patiently wait, it will come!
Pray to God for his will
on your life/ single / married. Ask him to help you to be happy as a single if
he wants you to be single. Let go of your desire to be married and with a
partner, and be willing to accept whatever God wants. For me and my Wife, we
attained this attitude then met each other shortly after. Talk about "Let go,
Let God..."
. When you prayer for
Gods will instead of saying "Fund me a woman.." for example, that is when your
prayers are more answered!
Incomplete: -more coming
soon---
Is you Child dating a "Gangsta"?
BREAK this up with prayers!
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